I’m Peter Winslow. As a life coach I’ve worked with all types of people seeking solutions, but here’s an example of one who really surprised me. I was completely taken aback when she claimed, "I know exactly why I got cancer!"
She went on to explain how she realized that the stressful issues in her marriage had compromised her health and helped to create her illness.
My surprise came from the fact that this particular woman describes herself as an atheist, and strongly believes that illness happens strictly at random.
As for the notion that "our thoughts influence our reality" she still considers it to be a steaming load of excrement, although now she is beginning to examine her own internal biases.
She's not alone; many people believe their thoughts and feelings have absolutely nothing to do with their health, how they feel, or their healing outcomes.
When I suggested to her that we all can learn to think in a way that helps us be healthier, she responded with vehement anger that I certainly don't know what it's like to be ill.
Well, I do in fact know exactly what it's like.
When I look back to my days with Ankylosing Spondylitis, I remember the anger, resentment, guilt, depression and other suppressed emotions I held. I didn't really understand what caused these feelings at the time because I was in the midst of living them, and coping with the constant, chronic pain of a cruel and punishing autoimmune disorder.
If someone had told me then that I was in any way responsible for my own condition, they wouldn't have wanted to stick around for my reply. But there is a wonderful silver lining to the story. If you’d like to know what it is, stick around for the next segment.